Monday, 23 June 2014
Life Hurts Sometimes ...
I have just found out thanks to the wonders of Facebook, that I am a Grandmother again.
A Boy was safely delivered to my daughter in law and Son, I'm very happy about that, my Son will be delighted, he already has girls.
I'm also overcome with sadness because I won't get to see him. Because of a family disagreement I won't be informed of the birth, but no doubt pictures will be published on FB, so I will keep up to date on there.
I know most people would say forgive and forget, blood is thicker than water, make the first move, blah blah blah, but sorry, no can do ! Mothers are people too and have feelings.
I've done nothing wrong and will not grovel or apologise for something I haven't done. I am a woman of strong principles, and just because I'm a Mother does not mean I have to lie down and be walked on by grown adults who know the pain their words are causing.
They have made their choice to believe someone else and shut me out of their lives - so be it.